MY HUSBAND STROKED BUT DID NOT DIE
Chapter 40 RETURN HOME

After passing a long and long examination at the hospital, the doctor declared a Stroke Arka mas. Mas Arka still had to go through a longer and longer period for his treatment.

My mother and I could no longer take care of her in the hospital. Especially with my growing body. I surrendered.

Finally we decided to take care of the Arka mas at home. Take road. Because it has been done various ways doctors, but the condition of Arka mas never improved.

My mother also looked very tired. And considering the age of mothers who are not young anymore, certainly can not be too in forsir.

There are a lot of costs that we have to pay for his treatment. I have spent a lot of savings that were available to prepare for the birth of my son later. Even my mother has participated a lot.

Today is the day of Arka's return home. We will take good care of him even with the facilities.

Almost every day I stay at my house. Help me take care of Arka's mas. Because I can't take care of him myself.

To bathe and just change the diapers, I obviously can't be alone. Because I have to lift it. My growing body will not be strong.

It's the first day we bathed Arka without the help of a nurse. Difficult enough. We took her to the bathroom with her wheelchair. After that it's my job to take off all Arka's clothes and clean them.

Because I'm a little unwell if I have to strip Arka's mas clothes. Arka is an adult, no longer a child. And there I am as his wife.

Because it was so difficult, we decided to hire a male nurse to help us.

We hired the nurse for a good salary. Because the task is not easy. In addition to bathing, replacing diapers, cleaning the feces also controls the health of the Arka mas.

The costs we pay are not small. In addition to paying the nurse, also buy drugs that are not cheap.

I want the best medicine for Arka mas, in hopes that Arka's mas will heal quickly. Not to mention the food. Because the Ark itself can not eat ordinary food.

Mas Arka has not been able to chew food that is too hard. His nerves are not working perfectly. Even as dead.

With painstaking Bima, the name of the nurse, feed the Arka mas. Helps to drink the drug, which must be pureed first, because Arka mas has not been able to swallow.

Sometimes it was me or my mom who was feeding him. While we communicate. Hopefully Arka can hear our words. And react.

But the truth is not. Arka could not react at all. He could only sit in his wheelchair. His position was not yet stable. We have to rectify his position.

His hands are still limp. His eyes are empty. His mouth is slightly tilted to the left. So horrid.

No more my husband. A strong step. Cute. Very charming smile.

There was only a man who was drooping limp, with blank eyes. Cannot communicate.

Mom and I sometimes cry to see the condition of Arka mas. So horrid.

At home, we often give him small therapies. One of them is therapeutic grasping. To train the muscles of the palm. We bought him a little jagged ball.

There was no reaction at all from the Arka mas. His hand just drooped. Sometimes I miss her clothes. But let alone stroking, raising his hand was not able.

His feet were not able to move well. His feet are bent. His toes cannot be straight.

I often help her feet when soaked with warm water mixed with salt. Although sometimes the water seems to me too hot, but there is no reaction whatsoever from the Arka mas.

We would love to have a reaction even if it was a small rejection, but still nothing. His feet according to him despite being exposed to heat from the water soaking.

Bima was very painstaking and patiently trained him. It could be hours he just to train the legs of the Arka mas can straight back. Although the results are still nil.

I can't see it sometimes. And chose to go back to my room. It was so beautiful to see it.

Every morning, Bima pushes Arka's car wheelchair into the front yard to get morning sunlight. The doctor suggested it that way. Sunbathe in the heat of the morning sun, to stimulate his muscles.

Can be two hours Arka mas in the sun on the wheelchair. Occasionally fix his sitting position. Because only a few minutes of the Arka mas able to be in a firm position. A few minutes later, his body would sag by itself.

After sunbathing, Arka mas should eat and take the medicine. Eating is no longer a fun time. It is very difficult to put food in his mouth.

The mouth of the Arka mas is like locking. Should be a little forced to open it. Putting in her very mushy food, even I saw it like juice. Because the food was in the blender first.

It must be slow too. If not, the food will come out again. The medicine must be pureed first even if it can be drunk.

Fortunately there is Bima, if not, I certainly will not be able to. Even though I try it sometimes. Bribe the Arka with patience.

The business of bathing Arka mas became the work of Bima. That's why my mom and I are looking for a male nurse. Because it's impossible for a female nurse to bathe my husband.

I also feel not sincere if my husband's body is seen and even touched by other women. Even if she's a nurse.

While in the hospital, I asked the male nurse who bathed Arka. Fortunately, the hospital gave her freedom of choice.

For the affairs of the BAB, it is even more difficult. And I think that's the most disgusting. Although the Arka mas is wearing diapers, but cleaning the feces, sometimes makes me want to vomit.

Once, Bima let go home for a while. Before long I smelled something bad out of his body. When I peep diapers it turns out mas Arka BAB.

It is impossible if to clean it must wait for Bima to come. With the help of bi Yati, I moved the Arka mas to the small bed in my room.

I did deliberately buy a small bed the size of a hospital gurney, for the purpose of replacing diapers or Arka mas clothes.

When you sleep, Arka's still one bed with me. I still hold it when I sleep. It was like hugging a life roll. There's no reaction.

Bima I let you sleep in our house. He occupies the boudoir of the Arka mas. In the room there is already a standard size bed. I don't need to buy a new bed.

Fortunately there was Bima. A very capable and painstaking nurse. If not, I don't know. Surely Arka's not well taken care of.