Pursuing First Love
184. Siraman event

The next day, a show of watering was held at the house of Satria and Kinara. The ceremony was using Javanese customs in accordance with the customs of both families. The flush event is held more festive than the teaching event which must be calmer yesterday.

Kinara was re-enacted by the same make up artist as yesterday. Surely Kinara looks very pretty with clothes for a flush.

" Seriously, Ra, you are more beautiful and your aura as a bride is getting out today "praise Elsa who does admire the beauty of her best friend.

Kinara smiled at Elsa's words. " Later you will also be married, Sa" said Kinara.

" should. I have to look beautiful, " replied Elsa, and they both laughed.

The show on that morning will start with a sungkeman. Kinara as the bride-to-be came out of the dressing room and then sungkem to his parents to ask for blessings to both parents.

Just like yesterday, Kinara was back together in front of Papa Lukman and Mama Santi. But this morning the atmosphere is getting louder and more thrilling because this event is more sacred than yesterday which is more relaxed.

" Papa, Mama who is very dear Ara. Again Ara wanted to say an apology if during life Ara made many mistakes and errors both words and actions Ara were less pleasing in the hearts of Papa and Mama " said Kinara paused for a moment to wipe away her tears that were already rushing.

" At this good time, Ara begs permission, please have the blessing to marry Ara's chosen man. A very good man, a man whom Ara loved very much, a man named Satria Bimantara bin Arif Bimantara. Ara was sincere and ridho, Papa and Mama married Ara. Ara also asked for the prayers and blessings of Papa and Mama, may the household life of Ara will always be harmonious, peaceful, prosperous, sadinah mawadah warahmah, and blessings of Allah SWT " kinara continued with tears that were growing.

" As we said yesterday, Papa and Papa give you prayers and blessings to marry your chosen man. May your household always get along well and be given happiness, be a family that is sadinah mawadah warahmah " replied Papa Lukman who also cried.

Mama Santi was crying and could not speak anymore.

Kinara immediately hugged her parents very tightly before she actually became a wife.

The event continued with a flush, Kinara was escorted to the flush place. Kinara sat on a bench with a bangka mat or pandan mat. Then began the Javanese traditional flush event, this flush sequence started from the oldest elders, then parents and families. The last one to water is a make up artist or bridal makeup artist.

Because the grandparents of Papa Lukman and Mama Santi are gone, then the first to do the first flush are the two parents of Rendi who is the brother of Papa Lukman.

Kinara continued to smile throughout the show and enjoyed it.

When he was done, Papa Lukman carried Kinara as a child. This was the last sling before Kinara transferred responsibility to her husband.

" Ara heavy yes, Pa" said Kinara staring at the face of Papa Lukman who was carrying him.

" No, Honey. Papa even felt your body lighter as you returned small " replied Papa Lukman smiling.

Kinara felt very happy and hugged Papa Lukman tightly.

After the flush show, Kinara was ushered into the dressing room to be alubi-alubi or dredged with fine hair on top of the forehead. Only then did Kinara return in makeup to do her next show.

" Is Ara ready? " ask Mama Santi approaching Kinara who is wearing a hijab.

" Some time, ma'am" answered the make up artist.

Kinara was again taken out after being assisted by Elsa. Kinara will ask for prayers and blessings from the invited guests. Kinara conveyed a short and dense as he would continue to cry if it was too long.

Along with the flush event, dawet selling ceremony was held. In this dawet selling ceremony the duty of Mama Santi became the seller, while Papa Lukman helped protect Mama Santi. Guests flock to buy dawet, a payment instrument in the form of a round and flat-shaped crew.

Kinara sat in the space provided along with Elsa as well as Alina. They saw Papa Lukman and Mama Santi who were following the dawet sale.

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Meanwhile at the Satria family residence is also being held the same event. Satria also again asked for blessings to both parents.

" Bismilbornrahmanirrahim. Father and Mother who Satria respect and love. Tomorrow Satria will carry out the marriage of Satria with the prospective wife of Satria's choice. Before Satria apologized if all this time Satria made a deliberate mistake or not. At once Satria asked for permission and blessing to marry a girl whom Satria loved very much, a girl named Kinara Larasati bin Lukman Hakim. Under the guidance, prayers and blessings of Father and Mother, may the marriage of Satria always in the protection and pleasure of Allah SWT" said Satria rested before his parents.

" Father and Mother give you blessing. May your marriage always be bestowed happiness " replied Arif's father.

" May your household always get along well and happy as the hope of all of us ", Mother Wulan rubbed her tears.

Satria hugged Arif's father and Mother Wulan after that. Satria also did not forget to ask for blessing to her brother and also her grandparents.

The show began after the water from Kinara's house arrived. The water used to bathe the groom is basically the same type as the one the bride wears. It's just added water used flush by the bride-to-be Kinara. The ceremony of adding or mixing water flush the way of the bride and groom with water flush is called manuhaken or bring together.

Siraman started with the oldest, Satria's grandfather and grandmother from Borneo. It was only after that that it continued with both parents and also the closest family.

" Blessed Nak" said Granny Satria poured water on Satria's head.

Satria was smiling.

After that all the events passed by Satria so that everything is finished and will be continued with midodareni event later tonight.

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