I'm You And My Memories
Pov Fyan's

Wedding preparations

At 04:00am my phone rang a call from Nana's mother.

"Assalamualaikum Nak Fyan I want to know that Nana ran away from home."

I immediately got out of bed, I never expected that yesterday's commotion efec to be like this.

"Patient mother yes I will contact my leting here to find Nana's whereabouts."

"Yes, I want to be searched immediately, Nana, I'm afraid of anything happening with her, But I think I know where she went, This time she must have gone to Aceh Nemuin Rudi."

"Ready Ma'am soon I'll care for Nana's whereabouts."

I contacted all my officers in the battalion of Medan and Aceh. I traced the streets of Medan very slowly looking for the existence of Nana, Though I have not yet memorized the area here, But for Nana whatever I will do.

Until the afternoon before I had not found the whereabouts of Nana as well as Nana's mother she also did not know the whereabouts of her daughter. Just then my phone rang a call from Edi letingku who was in the Rudi Battalion.

After finding out Nana's whereabouts turned out to be right since morning Rudi had Permit out the Dormitory and went to meet Nana. Immediately I asked Edi to crack down on Rudi after he returned to the dormitory later so that he knew and did not know. After learning of Nana's whereabouts I immediately contacted Nana's mother so that she would not be too anxious.

I decided to go to Nana's house and wait for her to return. I've been at Nana's house for hours and she finally came home in a very messy condition.

"Where are you from? Ask Nana's mother in a loud tone.

As soon as I got close to Nana, I was afraid that Mom would put more pressure on Nana and make Nana more depressed.

" Where's Deck Nana from? I'm worried about thinking about you deck from yesterday."

He remained silent not a single word came out of his lips.

Mom's coming back to Nana.

"Look at your condition now is really messy, Why do you find Rudi up to his Battalion there what you expect from him, You should be ashamed of your future husband. Fyan is really worried about your circumstances."

Nana did not pay any heed to Mother's words, She approached me and whispered softly while saying.

"Be gentleman don't be a loser using office for shameful things."

I don't care what Nana says and thinks about me, the point is I want the best for my future wife. I don't want any other man close to my future wife even though I know in this position I'm the one who's the most guilty of taking Nana from that man, But at least I had the courage to meet and propose to Nana in front of her parents.

After the incident I returned to Pekanbaru to prepare the application process for the Marriage Office in the military before legally becoming a Wife of a Soldier the initial process that must be undertaken is an office marriage.

And today Nana went to Pekanbaru to undergo a series of office Marriage submission processes.

There are so many things that must be prepared in the office marriage process some I have prepared all. The terms of marrying a TNI are also really very complicated and long. Many conditions must be met such as marriage license application. This letter must be taken care of by the prospective husband as a member of the TNI signed by the company commander. This letter must be expanded by ten pieces.

Letter of wife candidate. This letter must be signed by the prospective wife and given 6,000 stamps and known by local village officials.

Letter of consent of the parent or guardian of the prospective wife signed by the parents. This letter must also be known by the village apparatus of domicile parents or guardians of prospective wives.

Certificate of settling parents and parents of prospective wives. This letter is known by the village officials from the domicile of parents or guardians.

Cover letter D. This letter can be obtained from kodim or koramil in the domicile of the future wife and parents. This letter is intended for Commanders Kodim, Pasi Intel, Pasi Ter, and Danramil. This letter is needed to find out whether the prospective wife or prospective in-laws have ever followed a movement or organization that violates the NKRI.

N1 document to declare the letter of marriage signed by parents and wife and known by village officials.

N2 document to state the origin of the prospective wife and parents known to the local village apparatus.

N4 document to state information about the parents of prospective wives known by local village officials.

Letter of statement from prospective wives and prospective husbands known by local village officials.

SKCK future wife and both parents.

The last education diploma of a wife.

Birth certificate of the future husband and wife.

Photocopy of the ID card of the prospective wife and both parents of the prospective wife.

Fitting 6×9 coupling photos using PDH and Persit clothing without blue background badge as much as 12 sheets.

Fitting photos of prospective wives 4×6 using Persit clothes as much as five sheets.

After all the documents are complete, the future wife of TNI members must face the unity with her future husband. There, he had to take a certain set of tests

Special Research Examination

The prospective wife will be tested on public knowledge and citizenship and views of illegal organizations in the NKRI.

Health Checkup

This health test is usually done at TNI Hospital. Both bride and groom must perform a complete medical check-up.

Mental Coaching

Both prospective brides will face the TNI Disbintal to get coaching before marriage. They will be given a number of questions about their respective personalities until tested their religious knowledge.

After that, the two brides will also get advice from officers related to how to live the household ark.

Facing the Office of Unity

After all the tests were carried out, both of them had to report it to the union official where the prospective husband worked.

It was a long process at that time and it took approximately 3 weeks and for 3 weeks Nana lived in Bude Erna house which happened to be not far from my mother's house.