Prayer Changes Everything
episode 35
but all those bad thoughts I threw away, may be the best path that God loves for me.
ahmad's father has died since the age of 7 years and coincidentally Ahmad's father's family sekecamatan with me, only different villages, we met several times to plan the engagement and directly to the wedding.
a month before getting married, Yadi suddenly contacted me he asked to return but I refused, because me and Ahmad wanted a fiancee at that time.
Nis, I know your thoughts, you want to escape from your life by getting married, remember Nis marriage is not a joke think first with really*
sms from Yadi
all right, but I'm gonna set my heart on it, I'm sure it's the best way for me
my reply
and there we chatted..
Yadis
keep what about me who's still waiting for you Nis
me
I'm also tired of just waiting for your promises, saying you want to marry me but until now I haven't been able to stay in this house for a long time
Yadis
Patience, I do not have a permanent job nor do I have a home, I fear you are unhappy because life is difficult with me
me
I never had a problem with that, because I was sure it was God who arranged it, but I made my choice
Yadis
I beg nis, you think carefully lest the household without love and eventually divorce
me
Yadis
I can't say anymore, but what I'm clearly thinking is yes, I honestly still expect you to come back to me
me
sorry Yadi, I prefer the sure*
the last sms was not answered.
before marriage, Ahmad and I communicated via cell phone, he used to call me and chat little things.
remember that time of Ramadan, Ahmad contacted me during sahur and just open it, because he did not want his fast in vain with chat personal problems.
maybe for today it's said to be more but that's how ta'aruf is.
what is ta'aruf..?
ta'aruf is a visit or approach to match one of his family, ta'aruf is very different from dating, ta'aruf does not meet each other or does not chat personal problems.
how do we know his nature and his habits.?
we can ask a person closest to him and to convince himself with the prayer istikharah.
the month of Ramadan has passed, today is the day of my engagement with Ahmad, he pinned the ring on my ring finger, without looking at each other.
honestly I was shaking and my heart was racing, out of happiness.
we asked ustadz a good time to set up a marriage and on September 23, 2013, we planned to tell Ahmad's father's family about the date of this marriage, his intention was my grandfather who wanted to go there with an ojeg but suddenly my father approached me.
Jenn forgot his likes and criticisms huh
