THE SAD JOURNEY OF LOVE
I'M SORRY MY WIFE
ismilborn-Rahmaanir-Rahim .... This is the story of a husband and wife, who in the ark of the household, God gives a test with no fruit of the heart in the middle of life
n them.
May it be wise for all of us, that the test is indeed a part of life that should shape us to become more patient individuals.1
Once upon a time, a husband, who came home from work, found his house empty. His wife was not home at the time.
For some reason, suddenly at that moment, his emotions exploded. This was increasing, especially after seeing his wife who suddenly appeared from behind the door.
The husband said with a deep anger, "Where have you been?, I'm tired of coming home from work you're even crawling outside "
The wife smiled, she intended to answer her husband's questions to give an explanation, but suddenly her neck felt like it was suffocating. The husband pulled the long hijab he was wearing until it almost torn. And then the wife fell on the ground.
For a moment the wife sighed, and did not feel her tears fall. But she held her own mouth so as not to say something that made her husband's anger even more so.
" I'm going to make some warm water for you to take a bath, my husband" said the wife, wiping her tears and trying to stand up.
" Not to!" Answer the husband loudly.
" The longer I get tired of things like this. I want a son from you, but why are you barren. You useless wife!" Her husband continued with great anger.
" I'm sorry" replied the wife slowly.
" That's it! there's no point in you apologizing. I'm divorcing you right now. I want a woman who can give me a child" answered her husband.
The wife felt like she was struck by lightning, when her husband said the word divorce so weightlessly came out of his mouth. She really did not think, why her husband was so much heart to her, even before she gave an explanation of what she had done outside.
She asked herself why, after all these years, they had married, and with all her heart she had served her husband, but in a matter of seconds, her husband had the heart to divorce her.
The wife continued to beg her husband not to divorce her, but her husband even more and more in saying the word divorce even up to 3 times. After that, he kicked his wife out of his house.
The next day, an old mother came to see her. Her husband only answered briefly that the wife had not inhabited the house. The old mother then asked permission to briefly explain the purpose of his arrival this time.
She said she wanted to continue with the cut-off conversation earlier in the day about the wife's intention to propose her daughter to become her husband's second wife.
Hearing that, the husband was really surprised and unexpected,
" Is that really? " the question is short
" Yes, he said he wanted to please you by giving you a new wife, so you could have offspring. But he rushed home, because he remembered that you must have come home, and he really wanted to prepare your needs at home" replied the mother explained
The husband could not say anything more. It felt choked in his throat to let out even just for a word. He did not expect, that the wife had so broad her heart for the sake of happiness. But he responded to all that with the word thalak 3 which was easily thrown for him just like that, yesterday.
...THE STORY GOES BELOW...
At last...
With a feeling of regret, the husband continued to live.
And this time the episode of her life has come to a second marriage. He married the son of the old mother.
After a year passed, they were not blessed with a child. The husband desires to obtain information about his health to a doctor. After a few days, it was found that he was barren.
Instantly, the image of his previous wife reappeared that was so sholihah, very understanding, and patiently accepted the situation. Any thing faced his wife sincerely without complaint, although the inner wife herself is often hurt by her husband's temper and often hit her.
The feeling of regret and sadness prolonged increasingly in the mind of the husband at that time. He felt that this was a punishment from God for wasting his former wife who had faithfully accompanied him for many years.
For years he accused the troubled wife of not being able to conceive a child. However, it turns out that now everything is clear, that he is the one who "problems".
And now, there was nothing left for him but great regret. In sadness he promised himself to always respect his wife, and would not easily indulge in anger towards his wife again, especially with such lighthearted actions he broke the word divorce for his life partner.
Wallahua'lam bish Shawwab ....
Barakallahuficum ....
... May this writing open the doors of our hearts that have long been locked ...
Greetings and keep istiqomah ...
-- In case of errors and flaws here and there in this record ... It is only from us .. and to Allah SWT., we ask forgiveness .-------
May it be useful and Can Be Taken His Wisdom ..ismilborn-Rahmaanir-Rahim .... This is the story of a husband and wife, who in the ark of the household, God gives a test with no fruit of the heart in the middle of life
n them.
May it be wise for all of us, that the test is indeed a part of life that should shape us to become a more patient person.
Once upon a time, a husband, who came home from work, found his house empty. His wife was not home at the time.
For some reason, suddenly at that moment, his emotions exploded. This was increasing, especially after seeing his wife who suddenly appeared from behind the door.
The husband said with a deep anger, "Where have you been?, I'm tired of coming home from work you're even crawling outside "
The wife smiled, she intended to answer her husband's questions to give an explanation, but suddenly her neck felt like it was suffocating. The husband pulled the long hijab he was wearing until it almost torn. And then the wife fell on the ground.
For a moment the wife sighed, and did not feel her tears fall. But she held her own mouth so as not to say something that made her husband's anger even more so.
" I'm going to make some warm water for you to take a bath, my husband" said the wife, wiping her tears and trying to stand up.
" Not to!" Answer the husband loudly.
" The longer I get tired of things like this. I want a son from you, but why are you barren. You useless wife!" Her husband continued with great anger.
" I'm sorry" replied the wife slowly.
" That's it! there's no point in you apologizing. I'm divorcing you right now. I want a woman who can give me a child" answered her husband.
The wife felt like she was struck by lightning, when her husband said the word divorce so weightlessly came out of his mouth. She really did not think, why her husband was so much heart to her, even before she gave an explanation of what she had done outside.
She asked herself why, after all these years, they had married, and with all her heart she had served her husband, but in a matter of seconds, her husband had the heart to divorce her.
The wife continued to beg her husband not to divorce her, but her husband even more and more in saying the word divorce even up to 3 times. After that, he kicked his wife out of his house.
The next day, an old mother came to see her. Her husband only answered briefly that the wife had not inhabited the house. The old mother then asked permission to briefly explain the purpose of his arrival this time.
She said she wanted to continue with the cut-off conversation earlier in the day about the wife's intention to propose her daughter to become her husband's second wife.
Hearing that, the husband was really surprised and unexpected,
" Is that really? " the question is short
" Yes, he said he wanted to please you by giving you a new wife, so you could have offspring. But he rushed home, because he remembered that you must have come home, and he really wanted to prepare your needs at home" replied the mother explained
The husband could not say anything more. It felt choked in his throat to let out even just for a word. He did not expect, that the wife had so broad her heart for the sake of happiness. But he responded to all that with the word thalak 3 which was easily thrown for him just like that, yesterday.
At last...
With a feeling of regret, the husband continued to live.
And this time the episode of her life has come to a second marriage. He married the son of the old mother.
After a year passed, they were not blessed with a child. The husband desires to obtain information about his health to a doctor. After a few days, it was found that he was barren.
Instantly, the image of his previous wife reappeared that was so sholihah, very understanding, and patiently accepted the situation. Any thing faced his wife sincerely without complaint, although the inner wife herself is often hurt by her husband's temper and often hit her.
The feeling of regret and sadness prolonged increasingly in the mind of the husband at that time. He felt that this was a punishment from God for wasting his former wife who had faithfully accompanied him for many years.
For years he accused the troubled wife of not being able to conceive a child. However, it turns out that now everything is clear, that he is the one who "problems".
And now, there was nothing left for him but great regret. In sadness he promised himself to always respect his wife, and would not easily indulge in anger towards his wife again, especially with such lighthearted actions he broke the word divorce for his life partner.
Wallahua'lam bish Shawwab ....
