When the Heart is Tired
h Day wedding sister-in-law

"mas tomorrow ma leave, tomorrow will be Wednesday to make dodol where the father of Thursday mas enter again later Friday to Sunday leave again" said Mas Hassan

" you're allowed" I said while eating a peyek cake

" your mother" replied Hasan again

" yeah already if the permission is not pa2 fear later got angry permission a lot of mas" said me again

" no ma" said Mas Hasan again

We were late in the afternoon before the magrib chatted casually in front of the tv while eating peyek from the house of Mak. Not long after we heard the voice of the azan magrib we immediately prayed first. Finished our prayers for dinner with the fish selar. It is good to not eat sea fish. Sifa likes to stumble if not chicken. I bought 4-tailed salted fish I fried half dry then I sambal pepper red with tomato, steady delicious.

After dinner, the sound of Honda Wahyu clakson invited him to Mak's house. Sifa immediately ran impatiently. We dressed up and went there. Until Mak bik sari Sama Lia's house was there not long after sak yuni came.

"bell so I bought a shirt for Sifa" asked junior brother Yuni

" so sister, pink is also just no arm" I replied

" oh can twin later the same adek Lisa ya Sifa" said sister Yuni again

" yes, my sister deliberately bought the same color just a little different" I said again.

We began to help clean ginger, Ibu kak asked to make coffee for the fathers on the terrace.

" tomorrow after dawn the men told us to come here first to peel coconuts" said kak yuni to us

" yes brother" I replied with Lia bik sari just nodding his head.actually his fathers have been ordered also kak yuni but understand if not awakened tomorrow can Bangkok bad luck. You have to peel the coconut first about a hundred seeds to be made dodol tomorrow. After being peeled new in washing and grated using a large grinding machine.so do not use coconut grate that one-on-one it can make the old midday just finished marutnya.

It does not feel like it is nine more, the eyes also feel like we have started to sleepy we say go home first. Tomorrow you have to wake up early if you go home last night can be bad luck. Sis ayu Sam bik sari also came home, staying sister Yuni same Lia who has not returned.

Until the house of Sifa immediately fell asleep I was not long later to go to sleep. Mas Hasan was still watching the show on tv, what time did Hasan come to sleep. At one hour I woke up to drink Mas Hasana was already asleep next to me. Finish urinating and drink me back to sleep. I woke up at five o'clock and I woke up Hasan. We heard the dawn prayer directly at dawn, finished the prayer mas Hasana directly to the house of Mak I went to sleep Sifa for a while at seven o'clock we just followed to the house of Mak.

At six just woke up again, I woke up also sifa.all I took a shower and prepared to go to Mak's house again. Around seven o'clock we reached Mak's house. Many neighbors came, especially my father. In ibuk-umuk again slicing red onion and grating ginger for dodol spice. After enough for the seasoning directly on the sauteed, it is ready to squeeze as well so stay in the cook.

Make this dodol every day because it makes a lot of about 30 kg of flour. There are about 4 large cauldrons in the cook at once divided into four equal doughs. For the task of stirring the dodol is special for the fathers because it requires a large energy. Four o'clock all new dodol Mateng and directly lifted to the packaging place. After everything was done, we went home.

breakfast is available just to arrange. I helped arrange in the living room for the brother who was in the house. For their Frenchman in the back tent. After all we had breakfast together. After breakfast, someone sat down again chatting someone to the back to join the restaurant.

around one hour invited guests with Gawan have started to arrive we are preparing to welcome in the tent.much crowded until the third hour there may be about two hundred who come. it was interrupted a little long because the vegetables have not been Mateng.

Afternoon five o'clock just finished the members of the rewang say goodbye because later tonight still here again.later last night magrib there is another special invitation of the fathers.

Sifa has brought a change of clothes for tonight so don't come home. I also go home just take a shower later straight here again and at the house Mak.

in the afternoon, we were all ready to welcome the invitation. After the guest magrib began to arrive many queues at the buffet. About an hour of guests began to dwindle. The event tonight after isya, the Koran khatam continued again after his fresh flour pat. at ten o'clock more than thirty new events were completed. Sifa was sleeping from earlier. I'm already sleepy, but help pack it first just to sleep. Finally able to rest almost twelve I immediately went to sleep next to Sifa. Everyone sleeps at my mom's house tonight.

Once in the morning we were awake, actually still sleepy but today is H day. After breakfast we were ready to welcome the guests in front. Because many brothers from far away are coming. At nine more guests began to come one two people before ten hours began many guests.

" Bella just as Lia welcomes guests in front of me later I will be the same in the house all prepare parcels if you are from far away" said junior brother Yuni

" good brother" we answered simultaneously.

A lot of his guests maybe if not wrong special invitation only almost a thousand people and the special invite came to the house of three hundreds. Towards twelve hours the guests began to decrease we were a little relieved because we could eat and rest for a while later.

"sister bell is like his guest we've finished eating yuk I'm hungry already" said Lia

" let's also hungry Kaka "my answer

We were at the buffet for lunch. The kids ate in the house. The members of the rickshaw also ate everything. At midday we rest for a while because it will be two hours the manten paraded using kompang.

Almost two hours the bride and groom had marched from the side quite carrying a group of about a hundred people.

Four o'clock the event is over but we have to pack it up yet to rest. Five o'clock over thirty finally finished packing. Can rest and stretch muscles. We each went home.

Finally, today's event is over and Alhamdullillah everything went smoothly. Tonight there is still another event that the puppet show usually until morning.

Until the house I took a bath Sifa also I took a shower then took a break in front of the tv. It feels tired for days. I'll take a nap and let the energy fill up later. Puppet skin is waiting for tonight.

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