The Mate at the Beginning
Chapter 160 Heaven lies on the feet of the mother

Currently the most able to understand the situation and conditions is just Beautiful Mom. With a flexible movement Bu Indah raised one baby boy to be given to Mita who immediately refused on the grounds that not yet clean must wash hands and feet. Turning to Irham made sure it was clean first and handed the baby to be carried by Irham. Upon his return Mita was immediately handed over to the baby girl until finally both of them got the task of each calming one baby.

"Cup cup dear child Sholeh diem yes don't cry anymore." Mita tried to calm the baby held by her while swinging slowly until finally stopped crying.

"You see the other baby is silent so don't worry. Baby cries, the rivet is usual her mother must be calm so that she can handle if you panic the baby becomes uncomfortable. Between the mother and the baby has a strong bond." advice mom Indah on Nuri who seemed to listen.

"Now drink to be calmer." Bu Indah held out a glass of water that Nuri immediately drank until it ran out.

"Think positively a mother needs children the most so a mother knows better what is best for her child." continued Bu Indah provide reinforcement.

"Oek.oek.." The other baby was still crying loudly but Nuri just looked at him blankly meaning that Nuri could not respond.

"Cup cup children Sholeh good children smart children dutiful children diem yes later brother Irham love candy deh." her persuasion mimics the way Mita silences the baby while swinging just sounds tickling make beautiful Bu hold a laugh while Nuri just looks.

"Or want to be given ice cream" he persuaded again because the baby still did not want to stop crying. Nuri started to smile, it felt funny to hear the way Irham silenced her baby.

"Oh ok sister there is a more interesting offer or want to ride odong-odong can be originally diem well do not cry." plot..finally Mita can not help it anymore forced to pinch her head so irritated, he said,where there is silence the baby by luring in the candy, the same ice cream ride odong-odong thought toddler.

Beautiful Bu lowered her head hiding a laugh. He could not laugh because the situation was not conducive.

"What the hell sis...sick tau." the protest was upset with a frown.

"You've got a newborn baby like a world of your own, that's a big deal. Where there is diemin baby child given ice cream candy is the same what it is to ride odong-odong you think your sister.if given milk still makes sense." said Mita trying to be patient in talking considering it should not be noisy or the baby carried will cry again.

"Yes I'm just trying to sis..eh yes...susu...why not say from earlier love aja milk must be in her baby." protested with a frown and then smiled happily like getting enlightenment.

"Where is the milk here for me to love?" the plain tanyanya that made Nuri subconsciously close his chest. Mita patted the eel, today everyone looks like a fool she thought while taking a breath. Beautiful Mom shook her head looking at it.

Mita saw that there was a formula milk packaging on the table directly directing Irham to make milk that was immediately protested.

"I'm a man don't pantes make milk." he refused raw. Mita clucked when she heard it.

"Part of breast-feeding milk is the duty of women not men" she continued, strange language what is breast-feeding milk thought Mita while grunting and then taking a breath. He subconsciously began to follow the nature of the devil, easily annoyed at others

Beautiful Bu just shook his head looking at their debate.

"Have not argued here the baby to breastfeed his mother, son?" Irham immediately approached and handed the still crying baby to the lap of Bu Indah.

"Look..pity your baby wants to cry on maybe he's hungry." Bu Indah tried to attract the sympathy of Nuri whose gaze was not as blank as before, more alive.

"Can you breastfeed him?" tanya Bu Indah asked for approval and finally Nuri nodded. Bu Indah put the baby into Nuri's lap.

Mita who is aware of the environment instantly gives Irham a code to get out.

"What?" tanyanya polo's. Mita took a breath trying to spread herself.

"The baby wants to breastfeed you must come out" he replied softly, speaking must be clear that this same child so as not to ignore the energy thought Mita. Finally, Irham understood and rushed out.

"Let's see he's silent, straight to find his own food source, clever boy." Mita also listened to take her knowledge because she was married could be on the permission of God maybe she will soon feel to be a mother.

"We you also have to learn from now on because you are married who knows after this you are followed...." Mita just nodded.

The condition was back conducive when they gathered at home leaving Nuri who was left to rest after making sure both babies were breastfed.

"I'm still curious about the baby blues." said Irham.

"Baby means blue baby means blue combined into a blue baby...not that the mother said mbk Nuri got baby blues while I think mbk Nuri is not a baby and the color is not blue continues what does it mean?" go long wide.

"That's not what it means to be a child." replied Ms. Beautiful while shaking.

"Baby blues syndrome is a medical term that is a condition when a mother experiences mild depression after giving birth. This is because mothers lack of sleep and fatigue in the period of taking care of their babies, especially at night, babies tend to be fussy not wanting to sleep because during the day sleep continues. This is common in the first month after the baby is born which can eventually trigger the appearance of excessive anxiety."

"Another cause is a mother who has just given birth of course her physical condition is not fully healthy after going through laborious labor, stitched also then her uterus needs time to return to normal. So to take care of the baby a mother feels unable to with limited physical conditions, need the help of her husband. Therefore the husband must understand the needs of the wife and support the wife in taking care of the baby." explained Ms. Indah.

"So ready not to be ready well" asked Mita. The beautiful lady nodded.

"Life is a testing place, Mom. Have a happy child but also must pass many obstacles to start pregnant giving birth to a baby that turns out to drain the energy of the strong mental kudu that. It's not wrong that heaven lies at the feet of mother's feet, not at the feet of father."

"Yes..new pregnancy has a lot of obstacles."

"Nausea at the beginning of pregnancy there are those who can not eat anything usually gestational age up to three months there are more."

"In the second quarter of the stomach begins to bulge begins to be difficult to move freely, especially to bend, the waist begins to feel uncomfortable sometimes pain."

"In the third semester more and more complaints, the waist is more often painful. Difficult sleeping. Baby kicking up to the ribs it hurts so much. The more the suit moves, the breath engap especially if you do a lot of activities.essentially a lot of the struggle of a mother can not only be imagined." said Bu Indah choked while shaking his head and then took a breath. Shown back in time when she was pregnant, giving birth and caring for her children. There is pleasure, there is difficulty, there is regret, there is anger, there is disappointment anyway all taste there.

"But when their adult children are rich who forget. Taking parental advice is like limiting their enjoyment. Angry as if hostile when his wishes are not obeyed even though parents advise because we have experienced it, do not want our children to feel the things we experienced first." bu Indah story while remembering the behavior of her children from childhood to adulthood.

"Yes Ma'am.as the child we wanted was only what made us happy but with his insubordination we got the results of our actions....want to feel good or not good we know the taste and begin to understand oh it turns out what parents say is right."

"Every event must have a silver lining if we don't try what bitter taste is then we won't know what bitter tastes like, so will Mom...."

"Although wrong.." continued Mita with a wry smile.

"Yes." Yeah."

"There are many things that must be learned on their own rather than just listening to what finally looks like a fairy tale but the problem is that if we learn the vices in quotation marks we can get a reply from God whether we are sure strong accept?" Mita seemed to think then justify the words of Bu Indah.

"If for example learning good things, for example, to plant melon with several methods and then see what the results are, how big, the taste?"

"If you learn to take ecstasy pills how does it feel to be dangerous, harm yourself right?" Mita nodded in agreement.

The point of life should be based on truth not on desire because desire is not necessarily true while truth is certainly true.