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He sat in the room of the psychiatrist who handled it. His body trembled and his breathing was wheezing as he began his story. He repeated what had happened that day, when he was kidnapped in front of the campus where he was teaching.

"Sa-yeah, I was waiting for my friend to come home together, but suddenly there was a car that stopped in front of me. The people in the car pulled me in and smothered my mouth. Sa-yeah, I couldn't move, and they took me to a place I didn't know" Ajeng said.

Ajeng could not hold back his tears as he told her more about his traumatic experience. He talked about how he was tortured and tortured by his captors for several hours, and how he felt completely helpless to the point of unconsciousness.

Abiyasa's red face restrained his anger, hearing all the stories told by his wife. From the beginning of meeting after the kidnapping, Ajeng did not want to tell him.

"Sa-yeah, I feel completely isolated and helpless. Sa-ya doesn't know what's going to happen to me, and she feels very scared" Ajeng said, pinching his hand tightly. She's feeling nervous.

Abiyasa, sat down beside him and clasped his hands tightly. He tried to give the support he could, because he knew exactly how his wife was feeling right now.

"I was very worried about what would happen to my wife when she was reported missing at the time. I've also felt this kind of fear before" Abiyasa said.

They both come to a psychiatrist to seek help to overcome the traumatic impact Ajeng experienced. The psychiatrist tries to calm Ajeng down and gives him relaxation and meditation techniques to help him cope with his anxiety.

"Trauma like Ajeng's can be very difficult to overcome, and may take a long time to heal completely" the psychiatrist said.

Ajeng is still deeply affected by his experiences and experiences uncontrollable nightmares and anxiety. She had already tried to talk to Abiyasa, as her husband and closest person, but she found it difficult to express her feelings.

"Well, I feel uncomfortable telling what has happened to me, and sometimes I feel that people don't understand what it's like to be a victim of a crime like this," said Ajeng with anxiety.

The psychiatrist encourages Ajeng to keep talking about his experience, although it can be difficult to do. He provides support and advice on how best to deal with the anxiety and fear that may continue to arise.

"There are many ways to deal with trauma, and I'm going to help you find the best techniques to help you heal emotionally" says the psychiatrist.

Ajeng cried again as he spoke and retold about the events that befell him at that time.

After listening to Ajeng's story of his traumatic experience, the psychiatrist took action and gave proper advice to make Ajeng feel safer and get the help he needed to heal from the trauma.

Psychiatrists listen with empathy and understand how Ajeng is feeling right now. He made sure that Ajeng felt heard and understood, so he felt more comfortable talking about his experiences.

Psychiatrists also provide a sense of security and calm to Ajeng, so that he feels calmer and can relieve his anxiety. Psychiatrists provide help through relaxation or meditation techniques, which can help you feel more relaxed and relaxed.

After that, Psychiatrists teach coping techniques that are useful for Ajeng in overcoming the feelings of anxiety and fear that continue to arise. This coping technique can be in the form of breathing techniques or visualization techniques, which can help Ajeng to reduce stress and strengthen his sense of confidence.

Psychiatrists give directions or encourage Ajeng to continue talking about his experiences, so that he can express his feelings and relieve his fears. Psychiatrists also ensure that Ajeng feels safe and protected, and motivate Ajeng to face his fears in a healthy way.

Psychiatrists provide therapeutic direction or advice for Ajeng, such as cognitive behavioral therapy or talk therapy, which can help him strengthen his self-confidence and overcome the feelings of fear that continue to arise. This therapy can also help Ajeng obtain effective coping strategies in dealing with difficult situations and strengthen his mental health.

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Two days later, Abiyasa again brought Ajeng by coming to the spikiater place for further therapy.

"Hello, Mr. Abiyasa. Thank you for accompanying Ajeng's mother today. I'd like to talk to you about how you can help Ajeng feel more secure and comfortable at home."

The Spikiater spoke privately with Abiyasa, while Ajeng received another therapy from his assistant.

"Of course, doctor. I was very concerned about my wife's circumstances and wanted to do my best to help her."

With pleasure, Abiyasa received whatever advice and advice would be given by spikiater to be practiced at home.

"Right now, Ajeng's mother still feels fear and trauma after experiencing a very traumatic event. This is a very difficult time for her, and she desperately needs extra support and help from you as her husband."

Abiyasa nodded his head. "I'm ready to do whatever it takes to help Ajeng. Is there anything specific I can do to help her feel more secure and comfortable at home?" tanyanya.

Psychiatrists warm up and give directions. "Yes, there are actually some things you can do. First, make sure that the environment around the mother Ajeng feels safe and protected. Make sure that the doors and windows are locked properly, and make sure that there are enough lights to illuminate the house. This could help Ajeng's mother feel more secure and comfortable."

"Well, I'll make sure immediately that the environment around our house is safe and protected." Abiyasa undertakes the instructions given by the Psychiatrist.

Spikiater again continued the advice that would be given to Abiyasa. "In addition, make sure that Ajeng's mother feels supported and protected by you. Never leave your mother alone, especially at night. If you can't be by her side at all times, make sure that she has an emergency phone number that she can call if she feels unsafe."

Abiyasa nodded his head in understanding what the spikiater said, for the sake of Ajeng.

"I will make sure that Ajeng always feels supported and protected by me. I'll also give him an emergency phone number he can call if he feels unsafe."

"Last, Abi sir. Make sure that you always pay attention to your feelings and listen when he wants to talk. Don't try to force him to talk, but don't avoid him if he wants to talk about his experience."

Abiyasa again nodded his head understanding what the spikiater said.

"I understand, doctor. I will always pay attention to Ajeng's feelings and be ready to listen when he wants to talk."

"Very good, Mr. Abiyasa. I know that this is a difficult time for you and Ajeng's mother, but with your support and help, Ajeng's mother will be able to recover from her trauma. Feel free to contact me if you need any additional help or advice."

"Thank you, doctor. I'm very appreciative of your help and advice. I will do my best to help my wife recover from her trauma."

After everything was done, Abiyasa invited Ajeng back home. Ajeng never want to stop by anywhere, if they are out of the house to go for treatment. Even since that incident, Ajeng has never gone anywhere. Teaching to college is not. And the campus understands the situation and condition of Ajeng, thus giving permission.