Ustadz Heart Conditioning
The Rights of a Wife
Arriving at Dira's house immediately released her hood. Ustad Sidiq, who saw it, just shook his head and continued to lock the door and make sure the entire window was closed and then continued to go upstairs to their room.
The sound of splashing water was clearly heard as Ustad Sidiq walked into the room. It can be guessed that Dira is now in the bathroom.
Ustad Sidiq then placed his briefcase on the nightstand and opened his phone to check the report from his Food Cottage.
Ckleek.
The bathroom door opened with Dira coming out using only a towel, still visible water droplets from her long hair.
Dira quickly ran towards the closet to pick up a change of clothes and then went back into the bathroom.
Dira soon came out with a towel wrapped around his head. Dira walks towards the dresser. Looking for something that did not know anything to make Ustad Sidiq turned to him.
"What are you looking for?"
Ustad Sidiq stared at Dira.
"Look at Dira's hair dryer? Dira forgot to keep it where"
Said Dira just turned his head for a while and returned busy looking for the object.
"Mas doesn't know Deck. Maybe it's in the bottom drawer, checked yet?"
Ustad Sidiq said walking closer to Dira.
"No one saw it yet"
"Hmmm.. Yasudah adek sitting here, let Mas help dry Adek's hair yes"
Ustad Sidiq said by sitting Dira in front of the dressing table, then opened the towel coil on Dira's head and began to dry Dira's long hair.
Dira just silently looked at Ustad Sidiq from behind the mirror. Dira felt Ustad Sidiq full of tenderness and caution in drying his hair.
"Guys?"
"Yes Mas?"
Dira answered looking from the mirror.
"His monthly guest is done?"
Ustad Sidiq stared at Dira from the mirror.
"It's already"
Answer Dira slowly.
"Then the prayer should not stay on deck, read the Quran is also continued again"
"Yes Mas"
Answer Dira quickly.
Ustad Sidik grabbed a comb and started combing Dira's hair after making sure it was dry. Yes, although not fusing using a hair dryer anyway.
"Gorgeous Adek's hair Mas like to see it, but tomorrow it's not colored again yes"
"Yes Mas"
Dira answered the husband's words. I don't want to get another lecture better just say yes.
Ddrr.. Drrt...
Dira looked at his phone which read. Her smile grew to see who had contacted her. Dira quickly swiped his phone until the call was connected.
"Hallo Assalamualaikum Sis"
Said Dira smiling happily even though the person across there did not see her smile but they would know from the cheerful expression of Dira's voice.
"Waalaikumsalam Adeknya Super spoiled sister"
Said Razak's brother who was a hobby teasing him.
"Iikkhh Kak Razak, Dira is not spoiled, Mana ever tuh"
Said Dira with a manyun, Ustad Sidiq who saw it was just a head-scalp continued walking towards the bathroom to clean himself.
"That's never once but often"
Reply Razak with a chuckle across there.
"Lazy brother Nyebelin"
"Hahaha yes sorry, Brother is happy to hear you are back cheerful like this Deck"
"Hmmm, Brother how are you? When home? Dira misses"
Spoiled Dira.
"New last month Brother came home Deck. Anyway Adek know for yourself Brother can not just go home and Alhamdulillah Brother here healthy deck"
"Yes, Brother Yes, thank God, no brother should be sick"
There was a sound of kak Razak across the street.
"Yes Dek Insyaallah Brother will take care of health. Even if the pain must be grateful also means that God still loves Brother"
"Hmm, what's the big brother?"
"Just finished eating Deck. Oiyah you again what? Brother is not good if you disturb the newlyweds"
Dira was just grumbling when he heard it.
"Iikhh This brother is very happy to tease Dira.. Hm.. Dira just finished bathing earlier Dira participated Mas Sidiq to Pesantren Kak.
Razaaaak?"
"Oowhh. Yes, what's the dek?"
"Kaaak Dira Uda quit her job. Ntar money pajan Dira morein ya Kak. You know your own hobby Dira shopping daaannn,,,"
Ustad Sidiq who had just come out of the bathroom immediately had the privilege of listening to Dira's words just now.
By accelerating his pace Ustad Sidiq stood in front of Dira by giving a code to close the call.
Dira who was shocked to see her husband was standing in front of her added with a code that Dira understood immediately Dira ended the call.
"Maass what the hell bothers the phone guy? Put the shirt on there"
Said Dira turning his face away. Honestly, his heart was racing, staring at the top of the husband's open body.
Ustad Sidiq who regained consciousness after seeing her appearance immediately walked towards the wardrobe and put on her clothes, regardless of Dira whose face was already flushed with embarrassment. Well, even though Dira did not dare to see it for Ustad Sidiq is reasonable and it does not matter if Dira wants to see it already Sah and halal as well.
After wearing his clothes Ustad Sidiq sat on the bed.
"Deekk"
"Yes Mas"
"Sit here and talk something"
'Ck talk again ne definitely'
Dira slowly walked closer to her husband.
"What's up, Mom?"
Said Dira looking at her husband.
"Who's wife?"
"Dira"
"What is the right of a wife?"
Ustad Sidiq stared at Dira softly. Dira nodded his head to answer the husband's question.
"Tell me I want to hear"
"Getting a living from a husband"
Answer Dira quickly.
"Getting a living from the husband is certainly clear Deck, but there are five rights of a wife that Adek should know.
The first one is treated well with affection, as the word of the Prophet SAW: “The most perfect believer of his faith is the most good deed, he said, and the best of you is the best of his wife” HR At-Tirmidzi.
The second is forgiven for his mistakes and mistakes.
Prophet Muhammad SAW said: ”Give advice to women (wives) in a good way. For the woman was created from the rib of a bent man. The most twisted thing is something that is found on the top of the rib cage.
If you want to straighten it out (without using careful calculation, you will break it, while if you let it), it will remain crooked. Therefore give advice to the wife well.”
HR Muttafaq ‘alaih.
The third is guarded by the husband.
Including by maintaining the wife of everything that can damage and defile the honor of herself and her husband. The husband is obliged to take care of the wife with all his heart. The right of the wife to the husband is to get guardianship over her morals and religion as well.
The fourth did not spread the wife's secret.
This also includes not mentioning the ugliness of the wife in front of others. Because the husband is a person who is trusted to take care of his wife and is required to be able to maintain it. Among the secrets of the husband and wife is the secret that is done in bed. Awakened trust is one of the rights of the wife to the husband.
The fifth is invited to consult in all things.
This is something important. Because, when the wife is invited to discuss and produce joint decisions, especially those related to something important, the wife will feel appreciated. The wife not only feels like a good listener, but also a lively friend to discuss with."
"Do you understand?"
Ustad Sidiq stared at Dira's face.
"Yes I understand"
"Alhamdulillah, So please be kind to discuss what things we need to discuss. For example, like Adek who has stopped working. Mas understand Adek's income from work certainly does not exist, but Adek should not ask for it to others including Father, Mother and Brother Razak.
Now Adek is the responsibility of Mas, if Adek wants to buy something use the card that Mas has given.
If Adek still wants to work Adek can come to our Food Cottage. There Adek can supervise the Employees and calculate all income and expenses. In addition to the cottage also belongs to Adek, Adek will also give more money"
"Hmmm but Dira does not know where the Lodge Dining like Mas said"
"God willing, tomorrow we'll be there"
"Okeh Mas"
"Have you prepared soon adzan magrib, Adek want to join Mas Salat at the mosque complex?"
"Yes Mas Dira. Just a minute, yeah"
Said Dira immediately took his face and put it on. Ustad Sidiq and Dira continued to walk to the mosque which was not far from their home.
