THE WILL OF LOVE "HAPPY LAST"
dilemmas
Dilemmas
I was inspired by the story of his cousin Vienna named Mira. I was thinking about
getting married at a young age, but getting married is a very complex process involving the physical,
thoughts, mental, feelings and courage in living a different life. That moment
a person begins to vary his life by trying to be a part of people's lives
another, and establish a relationship based on complementing each other to achieve one
happiness taken together.
In some cultures, marrying and marrying at a young age is taboo
foreign, especially in this modern age. In other countries, quite the opposite. Teenage age now if
have not had a girlfriend and have never had sex, NOT COOL name.
The first group, more concerned with a career that is not necessarily happy and
make his life more calm. The second group, too stupid to see sexual intercourse
proof of love and present. They try to find as much pleasure
the world however without someone to share the joys and sorrows by his side. I feel
the dilemma, faced with a situation that made me have to choose a choice that was difficult to choose.
The questions are getting more urgent,
“Building the future by getting married or choosing (looking for knowledge)?. Both are
that will make life more focused.
My thoughts urge me, I thirst for the water of science, but I also look at my love story. I
want to continue my studies to S2 to be more able to boast parents, but happiness
parents see their children married. KUA's office feels very far away when the former
towards the wedding gate, I was still lying with my mind still there.
The man who asked me to marry a lot, the man who invited me to continue my studies
too much, my god. This chest is tight, drinking a little will only make the thirst worse
prolonged.
Marriage is worship, also requires knowledge and worship. Many get married while studies are not finished
also happy, but I am a woman, fearing male inferiority, if my higher mastastudi then men may be less likely to approach me because my education is more
high from him.
I leave it to the Lord of hearts, if any man is ready to ask me
sooner, then it does not rule out the possibility that I will also be ready to become queen.
Every woman may have the same thoughts as me, want to get married or
continuing school.
“School or married,?”
“Selecting marriage or returning to school?”.
This choice made my heart even more upset, said the young man today, upset
because this is the month of June where many friends and friends get married, demands to get married
the more arriving both relatives or family, on the other hand geralngan to continue
education to the higher strata is also increasingly brainstorming, these choices become
unstoppable and makes me need to be careful in determining it.
In my mind school is very important because school keeps us out of poverty,
schools can lift human degrees higher in other words schools make
humans think adults in acting certainly within the limits of truth, schools can also
make us more prosperous when the knowledge we get is used as well as possible
as the saying goes “ demand knowledge to china kenegeri “
Another case with married religion teaches when we are able to with enough age
people are obliged to marry if they can be done as soon as possible for good,
In religion is also taught when married, the door of sustenance will be more open
this statement is logical because 2 people become one living together, 2 people
combined his sustenance so doubled, this is a blessing in itself when the
creator. Without us realizing it is actually all around us choosing to get married at an age
young for many reasons. Especially when you are still a student or student.
We also often read and see the lives of young couples who have traveled
the natural household. Some are going well and there are also vice versa.Many judge, getting married at a young age is not recommended because of various good factors
psycholoy and economic ability. Those who are still students can
impact on their lessons. The choice of young marriage. Here are some
yana's statement that allowed me to make another choice.
'In the class, a friend asked, his name is Rima
“Sri, in your opinion, deserves someone who is still a student status and his age is still very
young to marry?"
I haven't answered yet, but Desak Yana answered and the answer is very interesting to me,"
Said.
“If I have a daughter later who asks to marry in the study period, if
his morals are good, his self-management is structured, his relationship with God is maintained, so will I
marry her. Even more so if one class or one university. But, if the child
my woman asked for permission to marry but her morals are bad and can only be troublesome,
and his prayer at the end of time, of course I don't allow ".
Hearing that answer, Rima immediately judged that her son Yana later meant not ready
so he's not allowed to get married. However, my statement next to me again was different from
my assumption, the answer is quite different.Vienna name.
He said, “If my daughter was careless, wake up and pass me
allow married, what can her husband expect?”
“Good husband?” God's promise is that a good man is for a woman
the good . My daughter isn't good enough, so I'm afraid she's bringing back a candidate
which is not good either.
"Yana also gave advice to us, couples who have undergone
household life but does not go according to expectations just be patient until the time comes,
how beautiful it is to work in silence like a cocoon, so that when the time comes we will
become a beautiful butterfly.“If you are married but the household life is chaotic the first thing
we do is pray repentance. Because marriage is not harmonious because husband and wife
too many sins. Sports because that's the fix relationship with the creator,”.
Nederdas"Yana"
Well, “School or get married “ my toilet repeated the question to Yana,
“If we observe two sentences that each have meaning to run as soon as possible
but sometimes who will live it confused when then resolved to choose
one of these.
“Hehe, you too will surely be upset?”. I asked for a thin smile.
“If in my opinion, yes marry first, just continue with college”, sad Mira
it surprised us.
If then the problem of schools whose benefits are very large is collided with
marriage is therefore not wise, for these two choices each have benefits
the good, and taught by religion to be done both, marriage is a blessing
and school is important stay ourselves who decide whether then to choose
one of these two options or choose both of them married then continued school
hehe.
Congratulations on making the choice because this is June then I suggest“married if you have a candidate and
school if you want a career, but it would be better if married then continue
school again ”.
