I'm Grateful to Have Him
episode 05's

Today the arrival of old friends who visit home is just a friendship to tell a light thing, the,

My wife arrived2 nyeleletuk, duh mas teja it's the urn kok broke dear bgt he said.

Yes mba it's my son's nastiness the torik kmrn maen ball in the house as soon as I answer briefly.

As if going to be opened chatter material he finally continued his story that yesterday his flower vase at home broke in mainin sm his neighbor's son, he continued his story, with a face that looks upset he told the chronology of the outbreak of a flower vase with the conclusion he was irritated, angry, bete but did not dare to reveal the same parents of the child.

And lastly he said, I was keselll bgt mas already my flower vase in broken food at home jg dibisin, did his parents not teach ethics well mas sm anak2nya.

I smiled without even answering to comment again

I understand very well with his frustration especially damaged goods are personal favorite items.

My two sons, a woman and a man2 

Boys2 is not like women who are mostly calm, so is my son torik what aj in mainin even really magical behavior.

But for things that exceed the limit I never tolerate him because for me children are a reflection of his parents.

Especially when we are going to visit I am very strict in teaching my children how ADAB BERTAMU especially when we are in food treats then take it just to taste as a sign of respect for the house and SHOULD NOT BE EXCESSIVE

Honestly Anxiety I like the more difficult to brake if there is a parent with a plain pretentious face says “Duh, understand ya his name is also children Genuine, I can't understand and I don't want to understand, because it's the same as letting a child grow up with the wrong behavior, and he doesn't know if it's wrong.

I'm the same my wife is really upside down, I bring bgt while my wife tends to be more calm.

I am indeed a bit fierce as a child compared to his mother is nothing just to balance the conditions at home.

I've seen my cousin's son, who is 8 years old and 6 years old. Whenever the youngest did not get what he wanted, he would kick his father or grab his mother or slap her in the face. This happened a few times in front of me, and my facial expression automatically changed. I think his mother knew I was really upset. The mother immediately defended the child while saying “Maklum yes, her name is also a child aged 6 years.” 

Well, a lot of 6-year-olds I know don't do that. For me the child is rude it is not to be understood but must be corrected.

Have I ever seen them reprimanded or spoken to by their parents then pretend not to hear? Or intentionally shouting or making loud noises to beat the voice of his parents. That kind of behavior is not funny at all. When parents talk or reprove, there must be something important to say. So letting the child behave like that only makes him think that the words of parents are not important to note.

So for me there is no term 

“ HIS NAME IS ALSO CHILD CHILD “ OR " 

" WELL INFORMATION HIS NAME IS STILL SMALL “

For me personally, when a child is wrong he still needs to be reprimanded and told what his mistake is and how it is right. Let us not ask others to understand these things. No one wants to grow up with the wrong behavior