Love From Mas Duda

Love From Mas Duda
Advice


"So, from Grietta first, okay?" said Ustadz Lana looking at the Bian princess with warmth.


"Grietta, anger is okay. But try if in a public place, crowded like this, Grietta has to hold that anger," said Ustadz Lana.


"Indeed, why?" ask Grietta.


"Well, why? If Grietta gets angry in a crowded place like this, then other restaurant visitors are disturbed by Grietta's screams, then the person does not accept, then comes up to Grietta and gets angry at Grietta, how?" lang Ustadz Lana's.


"Grietta want to, if scolded by someone else? It could have bothered someone else if Grietta was screaming in a public place" she said. "Um, so ... It's good if Grietta sesel, want to be angry, must hold the emotion first. Remember Mama Wafa's name, say it in Grietta's heart, then take a deep breath, family slowly."


Ustadz Lana still has limitations in talking to Grietta. On the other hand, the little girl had just dared to speak, on the other hand, the belief that made Ustadz Lana a little enough when it came to calling God or other things related to belief.


"Then to Sabrina," Ustadz Lana turned to look at Sabrina.


"It's true Brother Wafa is not Mama Grietta. His name is Ustadz and not Nana. The call from Sabrina for both of us was correct, MasyaAllah once and we are very grateful" continued Ustadz Lana.


"But for Grietta, Sister Wafa is indeed Mama for him and Grietta also usually calls Ustadz Nana. It doesn't matter as long as we both sincerely accept it,"


"Sabrina, next time, it would be nice to never again have a problem like this. It's Grietta's right to call us what we are. Even if Sabrina wanted to, Sabrina could call Ustadz Father, while Ustadz sincerely accepted,"


"So, don't force Grietta to call you what you want, okay? Everyone has rights, Sabrina knows rights, doesn't she?"


Sabrina nodded her head. Sabrina was informed of the rights by her own mother while she was still alive. Human rights or can be called by simply their own opinion.


"Do you two understand what Ustadz Lana said?" ask Wafa.


Grietta and Sabrina lowered their heads. If Sabrina had nodded her head, Grietta would not have given an answer. Wafa asks Grietta to hold his head up, then if he can see the two eyes of the confused Grietta.


"Grietta doesn't understand, does she?" tanya Wafa lirih's.


Grietta nods.


Wafa let out a light breath. "Darling, listen to Mama. You have to distinguish where the house and where the public place, crowded place like this. Yelling, it's not allowed, even if kids like you two are going to be excused" he said.


"But, a good child, must be able to hold back anger. In fact it is possible, shouting can also be due to a form of self-appreciation from frustration. Grietta wants to be a good boy, right? The good boy should always be patient," Wafa rubbed Grietta's chest gently.


"Good boy, smart boy, Grietta Hutomo his son Buan Hutomo, obedient yes ..." Wafa exhales in the Grietta crown, accompanied by a prayer so that Grietta can be more patient.


Read the Surah Al-Insyirah. Reading Surat Thaha verses 1-5. Read the prayer of the prophet David: "Allah, soften my son's heart (tell him his full name) as You soften David's iron."


Suddenly Sabrina approaches Grietta and Wafa, apologizing to Grietta and confessing wrongly for forcing Grietta to call Wafa sister. Grietta also apologized to Sabrina for yelling at him.


"Well, since you've apologized to each other and admitted your mistakes, you can order the food you want, come on!"


They had fun, ordered food and ate together. Sabrina eventually felt a sense of happiness as a child, usually she would spend her time selling to help her late mother pay off debts to her own biological father.


Afternoon, dad! They play until the afternoon. Lastly, Wafa and Ustadz Lana brought Grietta and Sabrina to the town square. There Bian will come to pick up Grietta according to Wafa's will who asks for all day to play with the little girl.


"Why do we stop at the square, brother?" ask Sabrina.


"There's something that Brother and Ustadz Lana have to do here. So Sabrina has to be patient for a minute, can you? Brother begu—" replied Wafa.


Sabrina nodded. "of course. Sabrina thanked me for taking me for a walk. So Sabrina will obey Sister Wafa!" saith.


"Thank you, yeah .." said Wafa.


They were just standing next to the car waiting for Bian to come. Grietta had not known that that afternoon her father would pick her up. The little girl looked so innocent she knew nothing, playing with the doll she held.


About 10 minutes they waited, Bian's car finally arrived. Grietta immediately understood that the car was his father's car, he immediately hugged his stuffed horse and saw with both eyes widened when his father got out of the car.


'Papa?' inner Grietta.


'Mama, Nana, want me to go?'


Grietta continues to think that Wafa and Ustadz Lana do not want him. From there, Grietta won't talk to anyone anymore. The little girl shriveled up behind Wafa.


"Good afternoon everyone," said Bian, as soon as he got out of his car.


"Good afternoon, Mr. Bian," replied Wafa and Ustadz Lana.


Bian sees Grietta hiding behind Wafa's body.


"Grietta Hutomo, don't you want to say hello to your Papa? Don't you miss Papa?" ask Bian.


"Grietta, come on, call your dad first. Papa has come home, and it is time for you to go home too" said Wafa softly.


At first Grietta refuses to meet Bian and comes out of his hiding place. But because Wafa and Ustadz Lana continue to persuade him, Bian's daughter finally wants to see her father. Actually at that time Bian was not happy because Ustadz Lana could get the attention of Grietta, even seen once Ustadz Lana close to Wafa. And there too Bian did not know why he did not like the closeness of Wafa and Ustadz Lana.


'Why don't I like this guy being by Wafa's side? Although I always heard from Zaka Yang that this man who helped Wafa was taking care of my daughter, somehow my heart was not moved even once!' bian's mind is upset.


"Grietta, you need to go home with Papa. Your grandfather's death warning will be held soon. It wouldn't be complete without you, wouldn't you love your grandfather when he was alive?" Bian squatted down just to talk to Grietta.


Grietta retreated back, then clasped Wafa's hand tightly.


'Why doesn't Grietta want to talk? Is he angry at Mr Bian?' waf muttered in the heart.


"Whether you talk first, me and Sabrina will wait there. Sabrina, come!" Ustadz Lana gave time for Wafa and Bian persuaded Grietta.


There were three of them when Ustadz Lana and Sabrina left. Bian stood up again, looking at Wafa with a gaze that seemed as if he was asking for help to persuade Grietta.