Hot Daddy And His Plain Girl
Chapter 58

Ezra had been staring at the Himalayas, but the Himalayas seemed indifferent and indifferent to her husband.

"Which.love.."

I just keep quiet, besides who said there was a bully and Daddy does not want Daddy today disturbed anyone, what senile illness kumatnya.

"What," I sniffed at Daddy.

Who told you earlier, be careful which wife does not hurt when the husband starts to falter and change because of the past.

"Ko ketus the hell, you're mad at Daddy dear." Persuading my ray, I was already annoyed at me dad.

"Honestly dad, same with me. Is there something Daddy's hiding from me dad?" I looked at Daddy questioningly

Ezra who got such a sharp look from his wife, his guts suddenly shrunk. If this is definitely going to be serious later, it could be that his stomach hurts or even more severe can not ration the night long.

"Nothing dear, really nothing !" I certainly don't trust Daddy.

If there's no way he's as sweet as it isn't, anyway why the hell play cat-sucking with me. He thinks I'm a kid, easy to lie like I used to be.

Not right now, just let him be alone again. Pregnant wife instead of affection even confused looking for the love of others, what kind of husband is this Daddy.

The Prophet answered: 'There is no sin against you.' (HR Al-Humaidi in his Musnad no. 329).

The Hadith explains the law allows the husband to lie to the wife only if he wants to please the wife, who for example is 'wandering' and comforting his heart. That is, not all lies are allowed.

There are several ways to deal with a dishonest husband.

1. Introspection

Self-introspection is a way to deal with a dishonest husband we must do it from the beginning, for example, take a moment to think about the reason your husband lied. Because, our partner or husband must have a reason to lie, one of them is to avoid quarrels with ourselves.

We should not do the same for revenge, wait for the right moment to talk honestly without emotion with the husband.

2. Find out the truth

Find out the truth first, by starting to investigate the husband without the need to make himself suspicious. If caught must feel uncomfortable if interrogating him blatantly. A husband may lie for reasons that would hurt his wife.

3. Be calm and talk well

Always be careful if you want to invite the husband to chat and get rid of the ego first to be equally calm, one of the dream wives of the husband is a wife who does not immediately accuse while being suspicious. Speak well by starting to express feelings that are covering the feelings, then if the husband feels comfortable to admit his lies.

Then proceed to the next stage carefully.

4. Ask why your husband is not honest with you

Ask why he has been lying all this time. And cover up the facts, why not just be honest, instead of being honest is better.

But if he is still evasive and does not want to admit it, we must be clever to collect the evidence first. If he still does not want to admit his lies, then the final decision that can be given to him is proof that he has lied. Clear evidence will make him not warty and inevitably have to admit if he is lying.

5. Not involving anyone else

Never occasionally involve other people because it results in making the condition of the household getting worse or runyam everywhere.

The way to deal with a dishonest husband is to investigate alone and solve this problem only with the husband. Husbands will certainly also appreciate our efforts when we do not involve family or friends in this household problem. Likewise, vice versa, should be so do not like to complain to parents or family, because the survival of the household is in your hands both (husband/wife).

6. Discuss the plan ahead

Talk well and have to talk about the relationship between ourselves and the husband. Make a commitment to be honest with each other.

7. Make a deal

Make a pact so that the husband does not continue to lie to us. In a good way, surely the husband will be devastated if we are patient and kind to him even though he is not honest with us.

8. Lots of communication

Communication is a bridge that can make the husband more comfortable to tell the truth to his wife. Therefore, the husband and wife must increase daily communication.

Communicating can pass anywhere, either through digital applications or when gathered together or wherever we go, you should also maintain communication.

When the husband and wife maintain communication with each other, the husband will feel hesitant to lie to his wife.

9. Forgive and forget

By starting to forgive his mistakes, although the heart cannot be denied the pain is still clearly reflected in our minds.

Forgiving means forgetting and not bringing up the lies that have been done by him. Husband certainly will not feel comfortable if we continue to talk about the lies he once made.

10. Acting well as if nothing happened

This method shows that we as an elegant wife and not easily provoked emotions. So as a wife should always be patient, although patient trials are also great.

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But what is wrong with cultivating patience, there is nothing wrong, for Allah SWT will exalt his faith and also reward His patient servants.

Allah SWT will never give trials or trials that are beyond the limits of the ability of His people.

Patient Himalayas, face all these situations patient Himalayas...

"Which.love." Call him again, I'm honestly still upset but let it go, it's okay soon the wound in the heart will heal over time.

As a wife and a woman I had to get rid of my ego first so that my household trip was fine.

"Yes dad, what's wrong?" I review my sweetest smile to you dad.

Hopefully with my attitude like this you become honest with me, why after receiving some messages and also call Aan Daddy so slightly different dad, dad, because there was a woman yesterday named Kartika or Bella again.

Though we had just been fine but it turned out that there were trials that befell us, strengthen me.

"Don't jutek with Daddy dear."

"No dad," I returned a hug from Daddy.

I'm waiting for your honesty Daddy, I hope you know my heart's restless waiting for you to be honest and talk to me for who I am.

Not just for my sake, but for our unborn child as well.