
after a few months of working in the city. Now that Aou and Andi already have savings to get married, Andi ventured to tell her parents, of course, her parents welcomed her happily. After two days after being on the phone, the old andi finally met us, and the next day they left for my village with the intention of proposing to me, the distance from town to village only took two hours. don't forget I called my parents so as not to incriminate Andi's side.
After waiting a long time, they finally went home, and said to Andi "Son, they asked and mama didn't feel able to do that much!" then andi glanced at me. "two more days they're waiting for an answer from us son, what do you think?"
andi was silent, because the money we collected was not that much.then I pamit to go back to the cost, sesampainyadi kos I tell everything to mbak maya,mbak Maya understood that and even told me to go back to the village first to ask both parents. After my asar prayer departed, how shocked this self turned out I arrived in the village faster 30 minutes,astagfirullah.
"assalamu aleikum ma, father,,,"
"wa alaikum salaam nak" they answered simultaneously, I took their hands I kissed their reverence.that's how I and my brothers if they want to go or just come. The disdain for my father when asked about the proposal suddenly grew stronger. Even to stare at him I'm his son does not dare.
I understand very well my parents, especially my father, he was a democratic father figure, always giving his children the opportunity to decide what their children would live, not least me. "son,,,, no matter what,,, what do you think of the proposal, because omm and tantamu survive 70 million steps outside the dowry?"
I understand my father also agreed with my omm and tant request which my father said was burdensome to the male side. Because my father and I also know "better women who do not incriminate dowry"
"Son, if there's a decision to tell dad!,
"father, as a man of synthetics and disdain, Syntyia gave the full right to the decision this time", after a few seconds of thought, the father headed to the living room, and,there was already an omm and aunt waiting for my decision and dad.
"dec, as our religion professed and destroyed by our prophet, that the best of women is that which does not burden men upon dowry,so me and the man of science decided to accept the proposal with which they were willing" said the father to his sister-in-law, and doubted omm and aunt.
finally, I told Andi this news. Andi sounded happy and said "well, tomorrow mama will go back there"
after hanging up the phone, I immediately approached my father, mama,omm and tantiku.
while at kos andi there was a tense conversation between him and his sister. "why so crazy like that, this is marriage! not a toy, he should have thought that marriage happens for a lifetime only once!".
"but, this has been his decision, and I appreciate it.
"for the first time there is a girl who wants to get married but has a strange desire!, fine if that is what she wants, but I will still take my in-laws there!"
andi put her feet on the bed and lay down.
it was time for the wedding day "as I wished, I did not want to invite many people, nor did I want to be like the usual bride,I also only ask for a dowry of 2gr gold ring and 2 rupiah money for thanksgiving after Ijab kabul later.my parents follow all my requests.other than I do not like the crowd, I do not like the crowd,I also do not want to later after marriage my parents have loans on people. That's what your family doesn't accept.
two after Ijab kabul, I and andi decided to return to the city and start working again.on arrival at the boarding house, I and andi istrahat for a moment,before going out to buy ole-ole for your parents who are now my in-laws.
in the evening, the rental car invited my in-laws back to the village. "we said goodbye, son, bad happy son, e," said my in-laws.
after the car left the boarding yard, me and andi re-entered. Suddenly you saw me not blinking, I was seen to be misbehaved. "why see me like that brother?" my many.
"i just don't expect to get married so soon with such a short time anyway, even though I used to think I would never marry my kedaan".
"thankfully, God gave way at the right time"
"forgive me brother, because you can't grant your parents' dreams of partying".
"have we, have we not married the goal that we avoid sin because it is so intense that we meet?"
"yes, but still I'm not good with them!"
"already, my parents are not like their parents in general, so please stop feeling that way, if it still doesn't feel good, love the cat,"
hahaha,, we laughed together...
he kissed my forehead and hugged me tightly, making himself feel hot. Getting married now or not at all is something that we decided on suddenly, because neither of us will be able to hold back any longer the turmoil in the heart. finally, the wedding night that I and I are waiting for happens tonight, with warmth and breath that hunts us to complete our desires,andi could do nothing but lie on her back in exhaustion, while I got up to take a bath,,,
andi woke up at dawn, saw him who had been hit by a peci and a sarong, ready to step out." "deck, brother to the mosque yes,,,!" wake up, dawn prayer! ask before you get out.
with a step to resist the sleepiness, I forced my way to the bathroom, after fulfilling the obligation, I rushed to the kitchen to cook breakfast and made both of us provisions, to be more efficient.
after breakfast I drove him first, and then I put my bike on my way to work the last few years.
"cie,, which is running out the first night," said eka teasing me, I smiled then started my work before the crowded resto...
while the other co-workers congratulated me on my marriage, I just nodded my head in gratitude for their words and prayers, that's how I would be if I worked, and they already knew me and understood me so much.