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The Law of His Wife Leaving Home and Against Husband in Islam

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"Here I want to convey the Law of his wife go away from home and fight Husband in Islam," Uacp Gus Azmi

Husband is not attentive, hurt by the words or deeds of the husband, less income, and, the atmosphere of the house is not pleasant is usually used as an excuse to legalize or justify the actions of a wife leaving her husband by going to another place (friends, relatives, offices, offices, etc, ortu etc.) in the hope of solving the problem or just teach the husband not to repeat his actions again. The action of the wife leaving the husband is often considered light or trivial by some women who do not understand Islamic law but if this action is done against a Muslim man who understands religious law it will be very fatal and the weight of the consequences because the religion of Islam strictly prohibits it.

Wife leaving the house will not solve the problem will only aggravate the problem, the husband will have the impression the wife runs away from the responsibility of duty as a wife, the husband will have the impression of a wife run from the responsibility of duty as a wife, make the husband become hurt so that it becomes light to divorce him and add slander for yourself and her husband. Especially if the wife leaves the house because she is scolded by the husband who counsels her is very sinful because the actions of this wife will be cursed by God and the angels scold her (see Hadith History of Abu Dawud below) .

Satan is always trying to persuade and invite people to do something that God and his apostles do not believe in. Satan named Dasim his job is to persuade a wife to disobey the husband and influence a wife to leave the house for various reasons to justify the above actions even though it is clear that the act is prohibited by Quran and Hadith. The reason for the hurt because of the actions/words of the husband, which is sometimes used as a reason for the wife to justify the act of leaving the house and husband. Often there is a third party (PIL) that sometimes makes a wife eager to leave her husband even though not all of them are.

In essence, a wife should not leave the house without her husband's permission, so even though she is advised and less noticed by the husband when the wife is sick does not mean it can violate the rules of God . A sick person eating less does not mean he can steal food because stealing is a sin whatever the reason. Likewise, the pain given by God to a wife as a warner from God does not mean a wife can hurt her husband by leaving the house and leaving her husband.

The wife who leaves the house, leaves the husband to stay elsewhere and leaves her husband in a state of anger while the husband is not happy whatever the reason, no matter what, for a woman who understands the punishment of God is very severe will certainly be very sorry and will never dare to do it once because if a Wife leaves the house and her husband means :

The wife is not a good woman .

A wife leaving her husband or leaving without her husband's permission is not a good woman because a good wife will respect her leader (husband). The leader of the household in Islam is the husband and not the wife because the husband has a higher position than his wife. and the most important thing is that the husband has given food and shelter for his wife so it is appropriate if the wife is obliged to obey her husband as long as the husband commands in goodness (not obedience) the Word of God in letter An Nisa’ verse 34 and Al Baqoroh verse 228:

Men are the leaders of women, because God has exalted some of them (men) over others (women), and because they (men) have given up some of their possessions. Therefore, the righteous woman is the one who obeys God and keeps herself when her husband is not there, because Allah has kept (them). The women whom you fear are nusyuz, so counsel them and beat them. Then if they obey you, then do not look for a way to trouble them. Verily Allah is Most High, Most Great. (QS. An-Nisa 34)

And women have the right to be balanced with their obligations in a moral way. But husbands have a certain degree of advantage over their wives. And Allah is All-Mighty, All-Wise “ Surat Al Baqoroh verse 228

A wife who leaves the house without her husband's permission for any reason and in his departure does not act even still including women are not good (dissidents) especially if he goes with a dress that is not polite like women in the Jahiliyah era

And Surat Al Ahzab verse 33 is :

Stay in your homes (women), and do not dress up as the makeup of the jahiliyah women. Pray, pray and obey (the women) Allah and His Messenger.

The word of the Prophet SAW : “He who obeys me has obeyed the LORD, and whoever disobeys me is disobedient to ALLAH. Whoever obeys the Leader (Islami) then he has obeyed me, and whoever disobeys the leader (islami) then he has disobeyed me.”H. R. Bukhari, kitab al-Jihad, chaps Yuqatilu min Wara’ Imam, juz-IV, p.61

If a husband because of something (Less income, PHK, Accident etc.) the husband becomes less /can not give his obligation to the wife does not mean the wife can leave the husband/home, because there is no Islamic law that allows a wife to leave her husband without permission because of these factors

The wife leaving the house without her husband's permission will be cursed by God and scolded by the angels.

The Word Rasullulah SAW :

”The husband's right to his wife is that the wife does not hinder her husband's request even while on the camel's back, does not fast even a day except with his permission, except obligatory fasting. If he continues to do so, he sins and is not accepted by his fast. She cannot give, so her reward is for her husband and her sin is for herself. She cannot leave her home except with her husband's permission. If she does so, then Allah will curse her and the angels scold her again, even though her husband is a pious man.” (Hadist Abu Daud Ath-Thayalisi of Abdullah Umar)

A wife leaving her husband is tantamount to plunging herself into hell because the husband plays a role in whether her wife deserves to go to heaven or hell.

The wife leaves her husband means she is not obedient to her husband even though if a wife knows that obedience to her husband can take her to heaven she will surely regret doing so in accordance with the hadith of Rasullullah SAW :

From Husain bin Muhshain from his aunt said: “I came to see the Prophet SAW. She then asked: “Do you have a husband?” I replied: “Ya”. The Prophet asked again: “What did you do to him?” I replied: “I don't really care about it, except for the things that I really need it” . The Prophet said: “How can you do that, while your husband is the one who determines you to go to heaven or to hell” (HR. Imam Nasai, Hakim, Ahmad with Hadith Hasan).

A wife who leaves her husband and is hostile to her husband when the husband is good to his wife. It is impossible to enter heaven because how can a wife hope to enter heaven if God is hostile to her. Even if the husband is hurt /physical then Allah and Rasullullah SAW will separate themselves from the wife. This is explained in Hadist Rasullullah SAW :

“No wife hurts her husband in the world unless she talks to her husband with sparkling eyes, do not hurt him (husband), so that God does not antagonize you, if your husband is hurt then he will immediately separate you to Us (God and Apostle)”. HR. Tirmidhi of Muadz ibn Jabal.

The wife left the husband no living for him and deserved the punishment.

An Islamic scholar and thinker who was very well known for his intelligence and was greatly admired by the scholars of the time, memorizers of the Quran and Thousands of Hadith, experts of Tafsir and Fiqh from Harran, Turkey, Ibn Taymiyyah until said: “If the wife goes out of the husband's house without his permission then there is no right to live and clothing”. It is not permissible for a wife to leave her husband's house except with her permission (husband),And when she came out of her husband's house without her permission, she did nushuz (deceased) and worshiped Allah and His Messenger, and she deserved the punishment.”

Ibn Taymiyyah (1263-1328) was a man who was firm in his stance and firmly grounded in the lines that Allah had set, followed His commandments and shunned all His prohibitions. He once said: ”If in my mind I was thinking of a problem, while it was an abstruse problem for me, then I would be privileged a thousand times or more or less. Until my chest became airy and the problem was solved. I did it either in the market, in the mosque or in the madrassa. Everything does not prevent me from dhikr and beristighfar until my ideals are fulfilled.”

Obey the husband his reward like Jihad in the way of Allah

If a wife obeys her husband and does not leave her husband, then her reward is equal to jihad in the way of Allah. Note the following hadith: Al-Bazzar and At Thabrani narrate that a woman once came to Rasullullah SAW and said: “ I am the messenger of women to you to ask : This Jihad has been commanded by Allah to the men, If they win they are rewarded and if killed they are provided with sustenance by their Lord, but we are women who help them , what reward do we get? The Prophet answered:” Tell the woman you met that obedience to the husband and acknowledging his right is equal to the reward of jihad in the way of Allah, but few of you do it.

So it would be very impossible for a wife who claims to understand Islamic religious law but leaves the responsibility as a wife to leave her husband from home.

Therefore it is very important to choose a wife who understands the law of religion and choose the wife not because of her beauty or property but chosen because of her religion so that she will not be trapped in the heat of Hell Fire. Rasullullah SAW's word :“The woman was married because: her property, her beauty, her descendants and her religion.then choose her religion so that you survived”Hadist Shahih Bukhari.

“The world is a pleasure and the best pleasure in the world is a good wife (sholehah) ”Hadist Shahih Muslim.

It is more noble for a woman to give advice or to speak from heart to heart with her husband rather than to others in case of injustice on her than to go straight away from her husband . A wife who hates her husband and intends to leave her husband for divorce and then hopes to get a replacement partner or there is a better replacement according to her, obviously, the woman was tempted by the devil so that this woman saw another man more attractive than her husband so that boredom, bickering etc and eventually lead to divorce.

Allah SWT has reminded us not to hate or like something when we do not know the secret behind it, in Al Baqoroh verse 216 : “Boleh you hate something, so you hate something, though he is very good to you, and you may (also) like something, but he is very bad to you; Allah knows, while you do not know”

I continue, Demonic business can be said to be a great success if it succeeds in making the woman divorced and predicated widow because this woman will be more easily seduced because no one takes care of her (husband) . This woman will feel free no bonding, more comfortable because no one controls (husband), more, furthermore, if the faith is not strong (mostly not strong) there will be a lot of slander and sin for the woman in the future. The temptation of the devil will be stronger at the time of the widow because of the natural factors of inner needs besides that there will be many men who seduce who take advantage of the condition of the widow so that she drags the woman in the valley of sin that never ends the woman realized if one day sick or already aged no one accompanies her until death. Widowed women are easier to take care of themselves when divorced at the age of 40 years and above. If it's still below don't ask…

Marriage is a sacred thing involving family, friends and neighbors so it is not appropriate for a wife to leave her husband for personal emotional reasons by leaving the feeling of happiness of her own family or the family of her partner.

By the will of God, more sustenance can be given to the wife rather than to the husband, so do not be magnified if one day the wife's sustenance exceeds the husband, feel more useful than the husband, so do not be, feeling able to live alone and can overcome everything by themselves, do not want to be arranged so as not to obey the husband. These are signs of the destruction of a wedding ship because there are 2 captains who control the ship in the opposite direction. The Wedding Vessel will be able to survive until the destination (heaven of the afterlife) if it only has one direction agreed and worked together. However, the purpose of life will be more easily achieved if there is true harmony that can only be achieved in a complete family there is a husband. Proud and collected property can be lost in an instant (fire, tsunami etc.) but having a husband or wife is a priceless treasure that will not be lost unless it dies. Therefore, the role of the wife of the husband is very large in navigating the ocean of life so that the goal of the happy end of the afterlife can be achieved so soon that God will give a great reward to the obedient wife and obedient to her husband

Many hadiths describe the reward of a devout wife to her husband :

”If a wife has prayed five times and fasted in the month of Ramadan and keeps ************ than is illegal and obedient to her husband, then welcome to enter heaven from whichever door you like.” (Hadist History of Ahmad and Thabrani)

”Verily every wife who died who was attacked by her husband, then he will enter heaven.” (Hadist Tirmizi and Ibn Majah)

If the wife is indeed disobedient to her husband, after being counseled subtly, separated from the bed and strongly counseled is unsuccessful then reflect :

Surat An Nur verse 3 is :

“ The adulterer male, whom he married was an adulteress or a polytheist woman. The adulterer woman is either an adulterer or a polytheist, and is forbidden in this way to the believer”.

Think back to whether this woman is suitable to be a partner/wife for men of faith, and can bring good for yourself and family, he said, just let this woman if she wants to separate maybe her soul mate is in accordance with what God said above.

Advise your wife patiently and lovingly, apologize to the wife if it hurts the wife, however dirty pearls rubbed every day will be glittering. The result is that these pearls can truly be a jewel and a heaven of the world to you.

Remember your wife is not a good, obedient and loving Lady Khadijah to her husband, Your wife is a woman today who needs guidance to be a righteous woman.