
Sita who is a daughter of Palembang nobility is required to use Palembang customary tradition for all series of weddings. Aditya did not mind because Fatma agreed because for him what was agreed by Aditya and Sita was part of their dream.
Aditya prepares a house that his family lives in during the process of getting married. The house was deliberately rented so that his entire family could freely help with his preparations.
" Mom.. Rest first...!" Aditya approached his mother who was decorating the intercession that he would carry at the show Nudging, which was, an event part of the traditional Palembang application procession where the family of the bridegroom will give delivery in the form of tenong or sangkek similar containers made of gold embroidered bamboo in it in the form of food as a sign that Sita was officially proposed by Aditya so that no man could approach her again.
" At a moment Dit, the responsibility is only this...!" replied Ms. Fatma.
Aditya rubbed the shoulder of the woman who had been so loved and respected. He saw both of his mother's hands that had begun to wrinkle. The hand that has been caring for and raising himself without ever asking for compensation.
" Sir...!"
Ms. Fatma turned her body towards Aditya and was immediately shocked because Aditya suddenly hugged her.
" I'm sorry Aditya bu if all this time Aditya has not been able to make mother happy even until now, these two hands still have not stopped, Aditya apologized once again...!" Aditya said while crying on Fatma's shoulder.
" There's nothing to forgive my Adityaku, you're a father and mother, the day after tomorrow you'll be a leader no longer a dreamer, be a leader who can take your family to His Jannah...!"
" Aaamiin ma'am, Aditya will never stop asking your prayers ma'am because Aditya knows the prayers of mother who heard the sky up to His Arras...!" answer Aditya.
Ms. Fatma stroked the back of her beloved son and hugged him tightly.
THE RESIDENCE OF SULTAN MAHMUD MAHSYUR
The extended family of Sultan Mahmud Mahsyur and Nyimas Zubaidah welcomed the arrival of his future besi family with great joy. Various foods have been prepared in abundance. Sultan Mahmud incessantly spread a smile to all the guests who came.
" Please come in.mari.mari...!" he said allowing Aditya's family to immediately enter his residence.
" Thank you ...!" ms. Fatma replied with a smile pleased with the welcome of the Sita family.
Aditya sits beside his mother and uncle who is married to Palembang but lives in Bandung. Aditya deliberately brought with him Mang Faqih because a little bit already know about the custom of Palembang marriage.
As with the custom of Palembang, this event also began with a pantun and verse stating a content and intent of their arrival which was also greeted with a reply to the pantun and verse as its reception.
Aditya Family :
Many people like to climb
Winding until the tree awaits
Come we have wishes
Want to convey the heart's desire
Family reply Sita :
White as a firebrush pinang keratin
Eaten by young jejaka
If you don't mind
With us, sir saveled
Aditya Family :
Rainbow embroidery princess fabric
Beautiful and beautiful is a dream
We once promised
Plucking flowers in the garden
Before we put it forward
Our greetings tell us
From Mr Ahmad Zaki Nugraha (Deceased )
To the family of Sultan Mahmud Mahsur
Replied by the Sita family :
Kemang fruit tastes chelat
Do not keep in the box
If there is a degree
Do not keep it in the heart
Teak tuan jati malay
Our teak is nautical
The promise of the past
We look forward to every day
Aditya's extended family was amazed by the Palembang customs he had just discovered today. They smiled happily enjoying all the process of Aditya and Sita's application.
The event continued with the tepak sirih event where the two families of the bride and groom exchanged betel. Sultan Mahmud's family was represented by Sultan Mahmud's younger brother Sultan Bashar who gave betel to the Aditya family which Faqih's uncle received. Then distribute it to all family members who are present there to then eat together.
Uncle Faqih resumed his pantun
Our basil leaves are dissolving
A little bit of us include
Complete with all requirements
Now our drums are out
Accompany the song of the heart splitter
This is all we're giving up
To ananda in this house
Shirt less belanga bay
Made from fabric
What we delivered was not much
Accept it with joy
Aditya who had been enjoying the show this time looking for his lover figure but not seen since. One month already he was unable to meet with his lover, all that really made him tormented by a very longing.
" Honored Sultan Mahmud Mahsyur apparently this nephew is eager to meet his heart but what power, only because we can meet....!"
Suddenly everyone laughed, Aditya blushed in embarrassment.
The delivery prepared by the Aditya family is now given to the Sita family, which was given directly by Ms. Fatma and received by Nyimas Zubaidah. The two shook hands and hugged each other tightly. The photographer immediately captured this moment.
Sultan Bashar again took the event with a reply.
Our scroll we mengabuhan
Melati edit we're in
Thank you we said
Small hands nyiru upturned
The king's son sat on the train
Wearing his crown of greatness
Like the message you asked for
We tell it to those who have
Pauh fruit on the beach
Taken the child who was taking a bath
Not the treasure we value
Be kind to heart fastening
White sand on the edge of kali
Chicken toy place
Love cannot be sold
Not something to do business with
Event after event has passed, various shipments and spending money for wedding preparations have also been given, Aditya continues to be made curious when he will be reunited with his girlfriend.
" Who are you looking for, son...?" Mak Qayah approached him as the meal began.
Aditya smiled shyly.
" This time you can't grant your request to meet my son, be patient.then he will be yours...!" mak Qayah said with a smile.
Ms. Fatma and her family are now chatting with Sultan Mahmud's family while eating a meal. From that conversation, Sultan Mahmud now knows that Aditya was raised by a widowed mother but managed to achieve his goals. His pride in his future son-in-law is growing.
" Where are Aditya's two sisters Fatma's mother...?" ask Mrs Zubaidah.
" This is ma'am, this one is Nida and this one is Sofa, women are both...!" answer Fatma. Nida and Sofa approached Lady Zubaidah and Sultan Mahmud and kissed their hands in reverence.
" Masha alloh..be very pretty, school you son...?"
" Yes ma'am, I'm in college and my sister is still in school...!" answer Nida.
" It's amazing this Fatma ma'am...!" sultan Mahmud.
" No sir, I'm just trying to ikhitiar...!" said Ms. Fatma down.
" My salute ma'am, mother can have children who are good...!" Nyony Zubaidah added his admiration for his future family.
Aditya came back to his extended family after talking briefly with the two brothers Sita and Mak Qayah.
" There's nothing you're looking for Aditya...?" sultan Mahmud asked as he chuckled at his former candidate who blushed in shame.
" Sita can't see you first, be patient, it's our tradition...!" tukas Mrs Zubaidah.
" Yes mom...!" answer Aditya.
Both of his sisters seemed to smile at his brother who was made wrong by the temptation of his future father-in-law.